Can an Indian woman really decide to marry the second time ? 🤔🤔🤔

 

     Samantha Ruth Prabhu married for the second time just a few days ago. Her ex-hubby Nagachaitanya remarried nearly a year back. So, finally Indian women have learnt the art of moving on. A career-woman succeeded like the way she was supposed to. This is what strength is all about. And it comes by earning money. Someone said Samantha wanted to continue her career post marriage. But her former husband didn't agree for this. That finally gave way to divorce. 

     But yes, fans and people in general were worried for her. She fell sick, and got into depression. But with time she gathered herself and moved on with the big step of second marriage. Raj Nidimuru, the man she chose was married before, and that too with Samantha's now ex bestfriend. Not so bad.  But in today's world everybody does that. That's acceptable, but very very scary for the first wife.  

     The way the society moves or grows into, the school kids need to be taught about it, I mean how to handle it, if it hits you suppose. When I was in primary school, we had a subject called 'Community Living'. But those were meant for kids. In teenage, today's generation needs such kind of subjects, more appropriately during the college years. 

     Girls and boys both should be taught to stay strong and erect when divorce happens, or more appropriately when their world collapses. A woman who suffers, suffers and suffers cannot be considered as great. She can't be a role model. Or this is not something that is rightly supposed to happen. Building a temple for the goddess of suffering is not something the society should do. Instead get a job for her or give her a shoulder to cry on till she regains her emotional strength, is something that is advisable. 

      What about money ? Learn the art of earning money. The girls should be taught in their teenage, the art of Plan B. So that wicked people don't laugh, giggle or mock when your marriage fails. I hail for Samantha. Great work ma'am, I myself am a woman and don't like to see other women in sullen faces. 

      I'm happy for our new bride. Please shower her with your blessings too.  Let this glowing, charming and confident woman shine like no other in future too.  

     A new age woman's wish to another similar woman- May you have a very blissful and glittering married life. 

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Does true love and trustworthiness really exist in today's world ?🤔🤔🤔

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/hindi/kyunki-saas-bhi-kabhi-bahu-thi-fame-sandeep-baswana-and-ashlesha-sawant-marry-after-23-years-of-living-together-share-dreamy-wedding-photos/photostory/125534189.cms

👆 Can you trust somebody so much ? Twenty three years are really big time. Both are successful careerwise, both are good looking and their families too are very happy for the occasion. 

     Today's world is too materialistic for genuine emotions and feelings. But Ashlesha and Sandeep are on equal terms financially. So this is possible. Yeah ! It is... The marriage is solemnised and both of them are very happy and reassured about their decision. One heart met the other, twenty three years later the hearts conveyed to their brains and no sooner than they got married. A great deal of knowing each other, guts and trust are key factors here. The world is not so much morally polluted, this has proved. Big cities, big confidence and now their fans will too follow suit. It's a good example. 

     What do you get by cheating after all ? Loads and loads of long term tension... nothing less. The jinxed and orthodox rural mindset should be done away with... Allow the youth to breathe... Indian women are intelligent too. The Mumbai way of life- love, trust, hardwork and confidence is the answer. For the scared and worthless lot, there's the old and painful way- shaadi, sasuraal, bachhe and loads and loads of humiliation and sacrifices.  

     In this new world, the world has gone further for the better. We'll accept it. My advice- hardwork in student life and smartwork in your job, this will tilt things in your favour. 

     Live-in or no live-in, do you know your man well ? What are the pre-conditions you are keeping before him when you are going or opting for a live-in ? Love, care and basic common sense has to be present in the girl when she agrees with or complies with a live-in.

     I love Ashlesha and Sandeep both. Their respect for each other and the dignity speaks for itself. Good couple !

     All the best and may you have a blissful and happy married life... God bless.    

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Me in pink 2 😍😍😍

 

No photoshop done. 

Anything may happen in the future. So be careful when you criticize someone.

https://youtu.be/Q6m3UQ5vy6k?si=-vxmJ6m1lUozaZ3e

👆 The above video is about actress Amisha Patel. I watched the video and was taken aback. She is fifty years of age now. Born in a rich family, armed with an American university degree, after initial career success, now she doesn't have decent work. She, as per the video is now with no other option, so obscene work. 

     A career which looked promising before, is now in trouble. No marriage, no kids.  She is currently staying with her boyfriend and his wife in the same house. How can such bad things happen to someone who was once so soft and much in demand ?

       So what went wrong ? Fate. The above video scared the hell out of me. Was she really working as an escort ? I think her adamant stand to continue working as an actress in Bollywood movies, in spite of so much negative box office reports, was the one which got wrong.  Career in the movies requires lots of luck. If luck is not in your favour, it's better decision to not continue working in it. She should have gotten married and gotten the support of family in whatever profitable business she and her husband decide together. 

      In the video, there is insight into how she spoke bad about other actresses.  In this way she became more controversial. Diplomacy works everywhere. Controversies don't get you work unless it's 'Big Boss'. Keeping strong and healthy relationships will get you the support. Money is important. But I felt bad whenever she lost out on relationships. Slowly she started heading towards doom. 

     I don't want to hurt anyone, but it looks like she's in deep trouble. No family support, no good career, she should work towards building strong relationships. Some secondary jobs through recommendations will then bring her money for bread and butter. 

     Actress Mayuri Kango too had a flop Bollywood career as an actress. She quit it and continued her studies. She is now doing very well in a good corporate job. Vivek Oberoi was once in deep trouble career wise because of his bad blood with Bollywood strong man Salman Khan, now through his investments and varied businesses he's married too and doing very well for himself. There was a time when he was totally cremated by the media and whole of Bollywood. Actress Tabu is all over Bollywood doing very well inspite of her age. Her collaboration with superstar Ajay Devgn has yielded great results. 

    Let's pray that our once favourite actress,  Amisha, comes out of all her troubles and there is positivity in her life in future. 

     It's a message for everyone that times may change. What will you do if during bad times, family and friends refuse to help you because in the past you were rude or passed unfair comments on them ? This is one example when future looks meek, everything looks unfavorable, but that's why we need to work hard and put effort, take out time and do sacrifices to earn friends and family. May be some dignified job,  through some recommendation will earn a decent salary to this once gold medalist.

     God, make things right for her.... 

I saw 'Saiyaara'. It was good. 👍👍👍

      Bollywood has matured. There were great messages all through the movie. What is true love ? Ask Mohit Suri, the director of this movie. It connects with the current youth of India. Their dreams, ambitions and issues. The expectations from a life-partner has totally changed now.  And the writer and director of this movie know the pulse of today's youth. 

     Halfway through the movie I felt that why does Krish Kapoor want to marry a clinically certified mad girl. The hero already had so many problems. His father was an alcoholic and was a menace. The hero was struggling career wise too. But in the end I felt who doesn't have problems yaar. If the girl had problems, even the issues of the hero were no less.  I loved the ending. For today's youth, it's about complimenting each other. All we need is a good heart.

     Both the leads were great in terms of acting and looks. Both have a great future career wise. The music was also good. 

     Thank you Mohit Suri for not showing mindless dance routines. You will be the next James Cameron. I respect your work a lot sir.  

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PRIYA'S BOUTIQUE 😍😍😍

The saree

Pallu of the saree

Blouse piece 

Border of the saree 

White half pearls, steel sequins, steel coloured glass pipes and steel coloured beads. These glitter when they face light.  

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Me in pink

 

No photoshop done.

I took my photos after a long time. Feeling good.