Friday, 16 February 2024

Don't be in bad-company, it can take your life. 😲😲😲

https://youtu.be/H2LoDvH_udA?si=PPhX6cp3LNHDTUMd

     All parents have to see the above video. Maintaining close, loving and caring ties with the children and teenage off-springs are very essential. The kids and teenagers should trust their parents, not any outsider. If you have an inhuman, outcast and horrible friend like 'Akanksha' here, the first thing that you have to do is snapping all ties with her permanently and seriously. It's better to find a new friend of principle and good value system.

     I had four such friends, one in the year 2004, then the next year 2005, another in 2008 and the fourth one in 2013. I don't want to name them. But all of these were total outcasts, with no humanity, no value-system and very dangerous too. I have left them many years ago, for good. 

     According to me and also from my experience, it's better to have technology as your friends, rather than taking huge wrong decisions in the bad-company of a sugar-coated demon-like human friend.

     Kabhi kabhi loneliness ko salute karne ka mann karta hai. 

     Do talk to your kid or teenager after watching the video.

    Chow.

Thursday, 15 February 2024

Kanda-bhajiya

 


I prepared kanda-bhajiya at home. It came out very well. 😋😋😋

Ingredients:
Onions
Salt
Red chilli powder
Garam masala powder
Turmeric powder
Bengal gram flour
Vegetable oil 
Coriander leaves 
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Wednesday, 14 February 2024

I have something important to say- part 2

      My dad's Cancer struggle has made me a more learned person. Here the problems mainly are the enormous cost of treatment and severe pain felt by the patient, both due to the horrible virus and the treatment procedure. Its really very rampant. If there are vaccines available please take it, don't think about busy work-schedule and it's cost. Just take it. There are vaccines available for both adult women and kid girls too. That's for Cervical Cancer.

     There are nearly seven deadly cases in my own family. The virus chooses healthy strong bodies, I have myself seen it. 

     If there is a Cancer diagnosis in a middle class educated housewife with a child, what should be done ? First calm-down. Then do the following:

1. First give your child up for adoption. Make sure that the family is good. Spend some time with the family, get to know them and when you are sure that they will take good care of the child, sign on the legal documents.

2. The comman argument is that- if moms are having this dreaded disease, then the dad should take care of the child. But there are many proven issues over here, what if the dad marries again ? What if that woman mistreats the child ? What if she runs away with the money meant for the child ?

3. The biological dad can ofcourse visit the child and give him gifts if he wants. Some rich people also make a trust so that big and major amount of money comes in the hands of the child, once he attains majority. The trust makes sure that there is no dearth of money in the child's upbringing.

     Sleeping pills or Anaesthesia, whichever helps you combat pain will do. I don't advice medications or painful or financially draining medical procedures of any kind, because it doesn't help. 

     Whoever it is, Steve Jobs, Nargis Dutt or my friend's granny, they all had to have painful deaths. So this is the way we should tackle Cancer. Don't cry because you're dying early, and who'll take care of your kids, husband and your aged parents. Ju...st take it easy. Contact a good lawyer and he'll help you in financially and legally arranging your money. 

     So guys, catch the raging bull ie worries by its horns and throw it away. 

     So... I'll be back whenever I have a new update. Bye for now. Chow.

Thursday, 8 February 2024

I have something important to say- part 1

     It was last month only when I lost my father to Cancer. Even though I had had conversations with many Cancer patients within the family before, I had never thought about it seriously. My late dad was a very healthy person for the most part of his life. He was a non-smoker and non-drinker. He used to exercise every morning. He never consumed fast-food or even mildly unhealthy food of any kind. He used to drink green tea daily. He used to strictly eat extremely healthy and nutritious home-cooked food only. If caught in any emergency situation, or while travelling long distances, he always used to order either idli-sambar or veg-thali in the hotel. 

     I was in the hospital during his last days. I didn't think that he was going to die. I thought that it was going to be yet another of the hospitalisations, many of which were going to happen in future also. The hospital staff also didn't reveal this important information to me over there. 

     I saw Cancer pretty closely in my dad's case. This dreaded and merciless disease can occur to anyone. And nowadays it is very very rampant. In my relatives itself I have seen six people who crashed and died of it. A former Polo player, and very healthy, good-looking and fit King Charles III also is diagnosed with it. Just by hearing this shocking news, his second son rushed immediately across continents to see his beloved dad. It is painful.

     When I first saw my dad's medical reports confirming Cancer detection, when I was traveling back to Ulwe in the bus, I thought deeply, as to how to handle this biggest issue which mankind all over the world were facing. That was in the year 2022. I started researching wherever I could find information especially, as to what could be done. I thought more and more about the topic- Life after death. There were informations galore about 'possessions'. Soon I found out that the souls of people who are already dead could not be trusted. The ghosts eat raw flesh of animals and humans and also drink blood. They have to very surely stay in their world, I mean they have to go to and stay in God's place only. If we bring them to meet at our place, the procedure of which is illegal, the place may become permanently haunted forcing the living occupants of the place to move out permanently. Nobody will buy such a house too, even if we wanted to sell it. There are also real stories where the best of Ghostbusters were also not able to vacate the spirits out of the house.

    Today, suddenly a thought struck my brain. And it is a break-through. In my forty one years of life I have had three surgeries. At age fourteen- Tonsil surgery, age thirty-  emergency Cesarean surgery and just two months later- breast abscess surgery. In all of these, there was a doctor administering me Anaesthesia and then they did the deep wide cuttings of my skin and organs. All through the duration of the surgeries, I'm telling you the truth that I didn't feel the cuttings and pain even a little bit. So, why can't a Cancer patient, right since he was diagnosed with this most painful and most expensive disease, be administered Anaesthesia continuously at regular intervals ? Instead of numerous Chemotherapies, Immunotherapies, scannings, blood tests, MRI or Radiations which are absolutely of no use, Anaesthesia should be administered. By this there will be no pain and sufferings to the patients, and when the time of the inevitable death comes, they will automatically and  comfortably leave this world. 

This is the solution to Cancer. All the patients, without leaving even a single one, whatever stage of the disease they are in, whichever form of this dreaded disease they are suffering from, the concerned Oncologist has to has to discuss this foolproof solution to the pain and suffering in this menace. I'm fully sure all the patients will opt for this solution. This is ofcourse a very good kind of respite. So pass this valuable solution or alternative to all the patients and Cancer hospitals. I'm very sure this alternative will be respected and wholeheartedly accepted.

     So bye for now folks, think over it.

Friday, 2 February 2024

Tasty pancakes prepared at home

 


Ingredients:
Maida
Salt
Sugar
Eggs 
Almonds
Water 
Edible oil 

It turned out to be tasty.
                              😋😋😋
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