Amy Jackson weds Ed Westwick 👰🤵

https://youtu.be/x6OvfMJdbAw?si=e1HfgAYve5Lw6msx

Hats off for love 

Hats off for trust 

Nothing more-

Nothing less.

     Both these are from the glamour profession. They got married with great fanfare.

     Relationships are fragile nowadays. It is true mostly in people living in all the major cities of the world. Amy was cheated before. She had a child after her engagement before, with another man. That relationship didn't culminate in marriage and sadly both of them parted ways. Amy had been working throughout. She gave love another chance and lo ! she is now actually married to Ed. It's great. Her fans and well-wishers are also happy and wish her well. 

     Marriage was a bold and big step for her. I think somewhere down the line, indian women should also take cue from her bright and happy face on her big day in Ed's arms. 

     Indian women should also stop sulking and give befitting answers to all the women with over-active tongues, around them.

"She's not a virgin. You can't marry her. Keep her as your bedpartner."

"Once used, nobody will marry her. She's now only supposed to quench the sexual thirst of the violent men in the locality."

"She had a child out of wedlock. Serve her poison. Or else the family-reputation will be tarnished. Nobody will marry girls from our family."

"Her would-be husband had left her. She should have committed suicide." 

"A broken relationship means she should stay without a man in her life, till she dies."

    👆 The above are the real mindset, the actual word is 'rotten' mindsets of the Indian gossip loving conservatives. But I do agree that the girls must have good degrees in academics, so that there is a 'Plan B'. The ability of having a decent amount of bank balance cannot be underestimated. 

     Women are human beings too. They too can be cheated, fooled or tricked. So a new relationship can be a good next option. Don't force her though. 

     Amy was a good girl. She got what she deserved. A kind-hearted partner who loved her, and will continue to hold her hand, and never let go, throughout the journey and all the trials and tribulations of life.

     Congratulations Amy and Ed. 💐💐💐We love you.

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Women women and more women are what we want 😳😳😳

Sikh Bhupinder Singh 

(Former king of Patiala)

https://www.dnaindia.com/viral/report-meet-indian-king-cricket-player-had-10-wives-350-mistresses-88-kids-he-was-3103180?utm_source=Taboola&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=recirculation

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Eddie Murphy 

(Hollywood star)

https://parade.com/1171114/parade/eddie-murphy-children/

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Marlon Brando 

(Hollywood star)

https://hollywoodlife.com/feature/marlon-brando-kids-4635733/

👆 The above are the people who are very rich financially and family-wise too. So so so very much madness towards women. Even my own maternal grandparents were no less. They had nine kids, even though they were not financially well-off. Why do some people have more kids ? May be because they like a room full of 'own' people. Some have madness towards women. Or in detail if said, bodies of women. The Kolkata R G Kar Medical College gruesome rape-murder is one such case. 

"If your woman doesn't listen, you've to make her listen", 

"He doesn't follow what his wife says", 

"You must not allow your wife's higher education at any cost", 

"You(wife) have a place only under my(husband) feet", 

"women should be tied up with a rope connected through their noses. Just like cattle then they'll be in our(men's) control."

"No matter how many degrees a woman has, it's us(the men) who can very easily teach them a lesson in bed."

     All these lines are not figments of my imagination. I've myself heard these lines from actual men near me. The fault is in the upbringing of men in our Indian society. I'm not talking about mama's boys. In the patriarchal family system, even though the son is married to a very beautiful bride, his parents continue to scout for more brides for him for his second, third, fourth, fifth... marriage. I have indeed myself seen it. Don't indian parents have any other job ? Its sheer clear greed for dowry money or the saas-bahu kind of crazy and inhuman kitchen politics. Let's not deviate from the topic of menfolk forcing themselves upon women. The question is when will this stop ? I've thought about this for quite some time and arrived at the probable solutions:

👉 Women who do night-shift, or are staying alone in a particular place, should be given the facility of a gun and should be trained to shoot, if in dire need, on the knee-cap of the person who is attacking them. 

👉 There are many well-educated women drawing huge salaries in their corporate jobs. If they are staying alone, they should keep a strong and trained dog with them.

👉 The police force does have various helplines exclusively for women. We should make the best use of these numbers. The first thing in the case of a stalker, harasser, molester or blackmailer is that the woman should inform the police and co-operate with them.

👉 The bigwigs of the glamour industry do talk in media about social affairs. They have said infact very strongly and clearly "when a woman says 'no', it means 'no' and the man has to listen to her and backoff. Women wearing western clothes or see-through or short clothes must not be taken as an invitation for sex." I agree with them. But still a woman or a girl child has to be careful and make sure always, whether it is their village or a big city that they are safe, then only they should venture out.

👉 Going to a secluded location alone should be avoided very seriously.

   And to the men-folk, if you want sex outside your house, there are professional sexworkers. They'll help you. Don't scout for other girls or you'll land in big time trouble. I trust the Indian judiciary. Just like the Nirbhaya case culprits, Sanjay Roy will also be hanged. Don't feel jealous or blindly take it like- 'The woman is highly educated or highly successful career wise, so she'll insult me or belittle me sooner or later, so she should be taught a lesson.' Men and women both are successful in today's India, leave the thought of belittling her, thinking "I'll teach her a lesson and show her where she belongs to".

     No need to teach anybody, girl or boy a lesson. For the mentally-sick, perverts, pornography addicts and sex-addicts, consult a rehab or a qualified psychiatrist. The modern, educated and mature world will not bow down to your whims and fancies. You will be punished.

     So this is me signing off for today, feeling much lighter because I've done my bit for the betterment of today's fellow previously weaker but now equally stronger sex.

Child geniuses should be encouraged and age restrictions should not be a qualifying factor.

https://www.dnaindia.com/education/report-meet-indian-boy-who-became-world-s-youngest-surgeon-at-7-studied-at-iit-he-is-now-3103272

👆 The above is the article I found on the internet where a boy right in his childhood had the appetite to learn, understand and do something that even the adults found difficult. Of course we do have skilled qualified surgeons who went to medical college following the various admission procedures, but this guy was good too. When skilled qualified surgeons refused to take up the surgery, the burns-affected woman went to him, when he, still a child decided to help her. And the surgery was successful. Currently at age 23 he is studying in IIT Kanpur.

     I know about some other geniuses too. 

👉 Chetan Bhagat, the famous Indian writer did engineering from IIT Delhi, management post-grad from IIM-Ahmedabad, worked in the finance sector in Goldman Sachs and now is in a totally different field- writing stories. 

👉 Warren Buffett started investing in the share market when he was 11. Now, still this old man is working in the field of Finance and is a very successful multi-billionaire.

👉 Steve Jobs and Bill Gates founded their respective companies Apple and Microsoft while they were still in college. The passion and the dedication to make it big in the computer industry was so high that they quit their academics mid-way. Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook was also a Harvard University dropout. India's renowned physicist C V Raman was also a man who went above the age restriction in the education system.

    The above are the facts which everyone can check on the internet. It's my gut-feeling now, especially with the advent of the internet, that with the right kind of guidance and dedication even the indian kids can be proven geniuses. The Indian government, State or Centre should think in this direction too, and relax certain hardbound rules to encourage more child-geniuses. I don't think it is that difficult or that unadvisable or wrong. 🤔🤔🤔

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