Adversities, what to do ?

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     I can't imagine that God has been so unkind to this woman. Such an attractive face, but both of her marriages left her alone in the midst of youth.

      It's important for women to be emotionally self-dependent. Even if it meant not financially but emotionally, what if that person dies ? Love is painful. What should a woman do in such a case ? Some women resort to alcohol or narcotics, which will surely lead to double-trouble later on. When I flunked my FYBCom exams initially, I went into Depression. I am taking medicines even now. I'll give out a secret which is my discovery-

👉 I kept a small and beautiful statue of Lord Buddha at home and on my office-table.

👉 Embroidery in sarees. I try to do funky things to new sarees. These additions to them make them look immensely beautiful.

     Both the above techniques are very good and natural sources of freshness and keep our emotions and stress stable. Some people resort to meditation, yoga, going to temples or gossiping with fellow women for hours together. Mine is simple and it worked fabulously for me without any side-effects. 

     Just relax and with a calm mind just ponder what can work for you. It can be karate martial arts, reading, writing, painting, cooking, gardening, music or dance. Doing something you like definitely cheers you up or it can even be eating something you love like sweets or chocolates. 

     Although natural and non-addictive remedies are the wiser choice, in serious cases of Depression, medicines are advisable. 

      So just like Depression-patient superstar Deepika Padukone, work hard, eat right, look beautiful and... your work is done. Cheer up.