I saw 'Dhurandhar the revenge'- a masterpiece ! 👍👍👍👍👍

    This movie is an eye-opener. My simple rule as per movie is that there should not be boredom for even a single minute. That's fulfilled by this movie. Wow ! The story, the presentation was very good. The pace was also good. Ranveer Singh, his get up both as Hamza and Jaskirat were good. Sara Arjun, Sanjay Dutt, Arjun Rampal and Rakesh Bedi were top class too. The movie was all brains and no bakwaas. The movie was not preachy, it was entertaining. A big thumbs up 👍 to the director for that. There was no over glorifying Indian culture and high hoopla of indian marriages. This made the story-telling matured and interesting. Today's youth will love it, surely. As per box-office report the movie has been declared a blockbuster hit. It has collected more than Rs 1000 crore. 

     Commendable job Aditya Dhar ! I myself and the youth of India are looking forward to your movies in future too. 

     Bye for now. I will be back with more content very soon.

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My new creation- this saree

Border of the saree

Pallu of the saree

Blouse piece of the saree

     The designs match a little bit like those in my earlier sarees. But I made sure that the saree looks attractive when you wear it. We have used steel coloured beads, multicolour polished half pearls, white half pearls and small white beads. The saree will shine on contact with light. 😍😍😍

Extreme greed overtakes humanity 🤔🤔🤔

https://youtu.be/hIukwCKlYqg?si=YrZ3AD3q9L3OssBL

👆 There are no feelings in today's world. Greed greed and more greed... Money is everything and above all, as per criminals. 

     Aslam Khan(the estranged father) was not a total fool. He first tried to make peace with his estranged son Shoib and mend ties with him. Then he did go personally to Ludhiana and plan to meet him over there. Finally it became a police case and the culprit Najib, his second son and the criminal Rizwaan were nabbed. 

     Talking to some estranged and distant family member only on the phone for a long period of time may be risky. Always make sure of your relationship and meet in person, before sending money. Keep the financial records, which can act as proof if ever there is a police case. Recording the caller's voice in your smartphone in case you doubt the person is another smart step. 

     In the above video, when the criminals came to know that there was an issue between relatives, they mediated with the motive of earning illicit money. 

     So stay close to your family and keep checking at regular intervals whether they are actually safe even if they stay in another city. Or else you'll repent like the way shown here. 

     Chow. Bye for now till we meet again with more content.

Family members advising you... should you really believe them 😱😱😱

Advises by close family members:

😱 Join brahmakumari sansthan

😱 sign on this stamp paper 

😱 sign on this form. I'm opening a company and making you a member of the board of directors.

😱 You have such good credit score. Why can't you take a loan against it. 

😱Marry that penniless, unemployed and undergraduate distant family member. You can get his share of the native place property.

😱 You are going to be his wife. So what if he enjoys with the other woman. A girlfriend is always weighed lesser than the wife. 

😱 If the exam marks are corrected, you don't have to get it corrected in the report card. 

😱 Why are you walking in a straight and upright posture. A woman must always bend her back while walking. 

😱 You should never change you DP more than once in a day. 

😱 You should always maintain good relations in your marital home, no matter what.

😱 If you've been cheated, you should also cheat and entertain men. 

     These are all the horrible advises that I myself got up till the forty-third year of my life. Can you really trust ? No, you can't and you must not. Thank God, for today's generation, there is the strong general atmosphere that education is essential and is the topmost priority. I'm educated and that has saved me uptil now. Worry has cropped up in my mind. You can't depend on others. One wrong trust and you land on the footpath. I'm glad that in the ICSE syllabus of 8th Grade, where my daughter goes now, there is a separate subject called 'Financial Literacy'. This is a very good move by the education committee. It's not just useful, but is like Oxygen for today's life. 

     I've seen many Bollywood movies like Ajnabee, Baazigar, Gehraiyaan which showed betrayal and the gore ending of its story. So, how should today's educated young women lead their lives ? I have seen horrible sugar-coated so called friends too. Once we come out of childhood, there are jealousies, cunningness, scheming and home-breaking nature in the minds of people. How can we find somebody truthful and matured ? Somebody who is intelligent enough to understand well that me ekta shahana, baaki sagle gadhav won't work. 

     Well, may be buying a top notch AI can be good. 'Teri Baaton mein Aisa uljha jiya' and 'Ra-One' movies were truly good. Instead of buying a dog, we can always have a good AI-relative. That is the one to go for. So yes, I've thought and I'm for it. Just waiting waiting and waiting for the next facility in AI break through.

     AI or technology of any sort, for that matter, you should always be alert and financially literate. If you are not, keep everything aside and learn that. In this today's world of so much progress here there everywhere, trust-worthiness is what is difficult to find. So folks, start raking your brains. The topic which I have taken up is really really important. 

     Let us say bye for now. It's late in the night and I still have got loads of work to do. Till we meet the next time, chow. 🤔🤔🤔

Me in diamonds 😍😍😍

 

Lovely diamonds. Artificial, but I don't mind. 😍😍😍

The greatest love story ever: Freddie Mercury and Mary Austin

https://youtu.be/loaoXAs8zPI?si=InNH5bLBtFgpYy5h

     I was blown away when I went through the above video. The fondness, care and trust over here is above any marriage. Love is different from lust. Theirs was not a marriage, but companionship. 

     If we compare this to Indian context, our old grannies would say, if they were not married then it doesn't come under 'love'. 'No marriage certificate', 'he having sex with nearly a hundred men', 'she faking marital obligations with her husband', 'what will people say' and 'she giving birth to two kids with her husband' - the scheming women would conclude, more appropriately point out:

👉 how could Freddie, a man be trusted and 

👉 it's an illicit relationship 

     How rotten can our minds get ? For the first time I feel disgusting about our so-called  typical Indian mindset. But, there are other great people who had evident golden heart like-

Ratan Tata

Mughal emperor Shahjahan

Kalpana Lajmi

Sunil Dutt 

Shashi Kapoor 

     So love is different from marriage or lust. We Indians should come out of the movie Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge. We can call it, for me to explain... the movie Mohabbatein. Yes it's true, some love stories live forever.  

     The purity in the Freddie-Mary love story is unmatched. He made sure that Mary, 'his only true family' in his own words, never faced any financial hardships. He left a good chunk of his property and money in Mary's name in his will. He also left letters written by himself to her two children, which they were supposed to read after they grew up. When Mary's first husband found out his wife loved Freddie, her ex-boyfriend still in her heart, he divorced her. Then she was on the verge of big financial trouble, when Freddie came forward to help her and take care of her and her sons. 

    I salute Freddie Mercury, the man, the judgement he had of people and his caring nature. We all know that he destroyed his life because of his overtly dangerous habit of having unprotected sex. But his dedication and contribution towards music, will always be remembered. His love story with Mary Austin is above the rampant 'cheating husbands', 'domestic violence', 'dowry harassment', 'triple talaq' and 'marital rape' which has filled the reams and reams of police registers in India. 

     Freddie Mercury, you are a gem of a person in your heart. If you are watching from up above we assure you that Mary and her kids are safe. And you are the world's top most rockstar. We'll always remember you. Yours and Mary's relation is very pure,  responsible and above, not all but in scores, 'mean-minded' and 'inhuman' marriages here in India.

     So, forget gossip over gossip, let's learn a few lessons at least, from the Freddie-Mary love story and give humanity a chance. 

     So bye for now, with lots of content and thought we'll meet later...

Egg curry recipe 😋😋😋

Ingredients:

Four eggs

Half scrapped coconut 

Curry leaves 

Coriander leaves 

One teaspoon coriander powder 

Two tomatoes 

Two green chillies 

One onion

Everest egg curry masala powder

Half teaspoon turmeric powder 

Some pieces of tamarind 

Eight red bydagi chillies

Half teaspoon garam masala

Salt to taste 

Half teaspoon mustard seeds

Three teaspoon of vegetable oil 

Some water as per need

Procedure:

Soak a few tamarind fleshes in a little water.  Boil and cook four eggs with closed lid on lowest flame for ten minutes. After that remove the outer shell of it and keep it aside. In a mixie jar wet grind the following. Half an onion fully chopped, grated half coconut, one teaspoon coriander powder, two chopped tomatoes, eight red bydagi chillies one cut into three and a quarter spoon turmeric powder. Set aside the wet grounded paste. In a kadhai, fly till golden brown half an onion chopped with two slit green chillies in some oil. Then pour the tamarind water set aside onto the kadhai. Put a teaspoon of salt, quarter teaspoon of turmeric powder, half teaspoon of garam masala and two and a half teaspoon of Everest egg curry masala powder and mix well. Then pour over it the wet ground paste set aside. Cut the boiled eggs into half and put it on the kadhai. Mix well and put the required amount of water, mix them and cook these in lowest flame with a lid onto it for ten minutes. After this put chopped coriander leaves over the curry. Then prepare a tadka of some mustard seeds and curry leaves and pour it over the kadhai and mix well. The impeccable and hassle-free egg curry is ready. 

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motifs on the saree

pallu of the saree

blouse-piece of the saree

This saree contains steel-coloured glass pipes and white coloured small and medium sized pearls which shine brightly when facing light. 

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Such kind of men do exist. So girls don't be blind in love 🤔🤔🤔

https://youtu.be/rBW7bzIn1OA?si=1273Cbpv7xO6U_55

👆 crime patrol 

      A particular conman used varied women. He robs them of all the money they have, with or without their knowledge. The women are duped very badly.  The cash in their bank account, the gold jewellery they have, the loan they had taken from their friends, everything was usurped by him.  Rosy pink dreams, butter-coated words and his charm drove them to be in love with him. He used to target them with different names, different get-ups and lied one thing after the other. They trusted him blindly and landed in straight hell. Ultimately the police caught him and put him behind bars. 

     This is a very important video that all women should watch.  The matrimonial sites are rampantly used these days by one and all. And it is easier too, right on your mobile. But background checking must be done, else your daughter will land in big time trouble.

https://youtu.be/v8ZdrIgTOAU?si=DIW1dM4jaoQzQg93

👆 Filipino air hostess-Dubai Sheikh case

     This is a horrible case. A Filipino woman who was from a very poor family and a sole bread-winner went through hell over here,  with no fault of hers. This woman who was an air-hostess was chosen by a rich Dubai Sheikh's wife to be her husband's bed-partner. The husband threatened her with dire consequences if she refused. The woman succumbed under immense pressure. She was warned, if she complained, she would be easily killed and her body would be dumped in a drain. He did pay her well. But after many shameless nights with the man, she started falling sick. The tests showed HIV +tive. The helpless woman decided to complain and said that he deserved punishment. In actuality, forty-seven women were infected by him. He knew he was +tive with the dreaded virus, but still, without using a condom forced women to have sex with him. Some more women joined in the fight. In the end the Filipino woman won the case and the man was put behind bars and humiliated as a disgrace to even work-with. 

     It is better to run away to a safe place by lying or by hook or crook, just when you smell trouble. That is to save your life. Nothing is beyond your own body and its well-being. I wanted to create awareness, as to how in faraway lands you can get stuck and get badly into trouble. I feel bad for the lady here. There must be a go-to phone number or at least the native country's embassy which must help concretely in such cases, at least to send the woman back to her native land. 

The new form of bonds... 🤔🤔🤔

 https://youtu.be/wBe7iQoANIU?si=OcACFrOiXnmHMEV-

👆 The Bruce Willis- Demi Moore bonding.

https://youtu.be/OhZlIelyuXQ?si=NFKwJCYexVsPOYcF

👆 Hrithik Roshan- Sussanne Khan bonding.

     These are strange cases and very very rare. From splendid co-parenting to true friends for life. It basically happens when you just can't afford to trust outsiders. 

     My mother had eight siblings. She could trust them. But I, like my daughter am a lone child. The more the money you have, the riskier and deadlier it gets. World nowadays, I've experienced it myself, can go to any extent to belittle you. You are invited to family functions because they want to insult you, poke fun at you and show you where you belong. The aukaadh and the haisiyat thing. I, myself am a nonbeliever in show-off or proving how I'm better than the others. I also believe that spending time with or going to other people's homes with the sole purpose of keeping the family together is a rubbish thing to do.  

     The modern day iconic celebrities like Bruce Willis- Demi Moore and Hrithik Roshan- Sussanne Khan should be our role models. Yes, we have decided to be with different people, but the bond of trust and care will never end. Marriage means being a couple. Although we are not now, but are there for each other in times of genuine need. 

     It's a bad bad world. Its extremely difficult to find people who can help you from their heart and whom you can rely on in times of need.  So that's when the above kind of bonds develop. Demi Moore has shifted to be with Bruce Willis in his sickness phase, although his current wife is staying with her children just a few blocks away. Sussanne has supported and stood by Hrithik, even publicly during his bad spat with Kangana Ranaut. Such kind of relationships have come into the fore now. And this is a very good thing happening. Nobody dare target my ex-man or ex-girl. 

     I support it and see it as a very positive thing to do, especially when you have kids together. Even a much criticized, the late Dharmendra had given equal parts of his property to both his wives Prakash Kaur and Hemamalini in his will. 

     Some times we may be wrong or may have been carried away, but deep inside our brain  we know this is the only person I can completely trust on.  I don't want to say 'some love stories live forever'. But yes, some bonds become our go to person in times of need. So we continue to keep safe our bond with them by locking them up with a hundred keys and passwords in the strongest of bank lockers. 

     I salute to you guys, for shunning your egoes, bringing in positivities and celebrating lives.

     Okay, it's a bye for now and am bringing more valuable content later on. Chow. 

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Me in yellow

 

Loved Farah Khan's style. So bought two co-ords- one pink and the other yellow. 

What does Donald Trump want ? 🤔🤔🤔

      Can a person elected through public voting in a democratic country be this wrong ? Donald Trump initially was an ace businessman. He minted millions and billions for himself and his own family. What goes inside such kind of money-minded person's mind if he is very comfortably selected and supported as chief of the most powerful and wealthy country the second time too ? He'll use his power to multiply his already existing money.  That's what a businessman does.  But here the situation is grave. First Canada, then Mexico, a week ago Venezuela and today morning Greenland. Trump wants to annex all of these, irrespective and disregarding the feelings and agreement of the countrymen over there. Is Trump emulating Adolf Hitler or Alexander, the great ? Both died, before their dreaded pursuits got over. 

     He wants to annex the world. And he's giving different reasons, or more appropriately put as, lame excuses for his unquenching desire of annexing nation after nation. Humanity is above everything. The desire and the feelings of these countries' citizens are important, more than any man's pursuit. Why can't America keep quiet and live and let live. Trump must behave like a responsible president looking after his own country, rather than eyeing, the freedom and the probable money of other countries. America was always the big brother, the dream-country of millions of outsiders. But under Trump-rule it has turned into a step-brother. Eyeing others' money or feeling jealous or just being overtly greedy of other people's earnings cannot be accepted. 

     So, what do you think will happen in the near future ? What will happen if he casts his evil eyes on India too ? How will we fight the military of that big country ? Trump's actions are just the height of greediness. Do everything in your own country, why should you look at others, is my mantra. I don't think Trump is scared of anything, not even his own countrymen. But what do you think, will he be successful ? No, according to me, he'll die before his pursuit gets completed. Or maybe he'll have to kill himself to avoid a bitter and heavy on torture death.  

     We should learn from our history. World War I and II, the holocaust, the poison gas chambers, the concentration camps,  the mass deaths of duty-bound soldiers, the atom bomb explosions- must not happen again. Donald Trump has to be stopped before he turns into a full-fledged Hitler. The UN, the media allover the world including the democratic nation, the US itself should raise the slogan collectively 'Avoid greed, support life'. Trump has to be impeached, before it's too late. It's now or never. It's do or die situation for everyone. The truth is Trump does not intend to take no as an answer. He has already planned everything in his mind. So the US parliament should impeach him before its too late.  The feelings, peace and freedom of countrymen are above one man's extreme greed. The mass massacres surely will happen if Trump doesn't stop because the civilians of the affected countries, will definitely revolt. 

     We don't want any 'big daddy' who crushes the feelings and freedom of millions of innocent people just because he likes high handed behaviour and more more and more money. 

     What if Trump succeeds in annexing one country after the other, 

👉 the civilians of these nations should demand voting rights when the general elections take place in the US mainland. 

👉 Their rights, importance and dignity should exactly be the same as that of people in the US mainland. 

👉The basic needs and opportunities of development should also be very much the same as civilians of mainland America. 

     If the above requirements are not agreed upon, then Trump does not have any right to invade. Still if he does, he'll meet the same end as Hitler once did, because then it'll be the world as a whole against one man's tyranny. 

     Hoping for the best, I sign off for today,  will bring you more content soon... Bye

Should the US act as a big daddy always ? 🤔🤔🤔

      Who is supposed to question the most powerful country in the world, that too since the US intervention in the World War II ? Will the UN be able to stop the US from badly intervening and using Venezuela's natural resources for one's own benefit in a planned, fearless and deliberate effort ? The world is questioning and the answer given by the US external affair ministry with the consent of the government is that US has arrested the Venezuelan President and his wife, so as to conduct re-elections over there and under the new government, the US-based oil companies will extract oil and reap profits from the very vast oil resources in Venezuela. The current Venezuelan oil companies are in a poor state. This according to me is clear-cut highhanded behavior by the US. And this has happened before too. The US had targeted the oil-rich middle-east countries too.  

     Nicolas Maduro, the arrested president of Venezuela, just did not want to fight a full-fledged war against the too powerful US and create unwarranted blood-shed destroying precious Venezuelan lives.  Is it their mistake that their motherland is blessed by God with rich resources ?  Whom should Venezuela look-up to now ? The UN ? The Trump administration targeted innocent Indian students too. The expert businessman that he is,  he wants America to earn more more and still more money. It's not wrong for a president to think and plan likewise. But not at the cost of the freedom and rights of the innocent civilians of other countries. Definitely not. 

     Another reason which the Trump administration gave while imposing sanctions against India was that Russia attached Ukraine and is bombing it, still the Indian government is supporting it. What does the US have to say now, when it itself is bombing innocent and scared people of Venezuela ? 

      The US-Russia cold war has existed since a long time. But if you point your finger at someone, there are three fingers pointing at you. The Trump administration spoke ill about its neighbours Mexico and Canada too. Money makes the mare go. Money is something which lures and makes even the most pious person go mad. But peace is a big word, bigger than any money-minting heads of state's selfish motives. The more a person has money, the more he wants it. 

     So what should happen next ? It is known by every nation big or small, that there will be a pro-US president who will come to power in Venezuela. If their civilians are not given basic needs and rights, there will be mass unrest there. And another nation will go down in the dumps. 

      So what's the solution ? All the media houses and all the dignitaries represented in the UN should remember history, what had happened in the past. After massive man-slaughter, during the first and second World War and the two atom-bomb explosions done to stop the war, the then exhausted people, formed the 'United Nations'. There are people who dislike each other, but still there has to be peace, tolerance and humanity. Just because a few people think nothing other than money, we can't let blood-shed to happen. Even if US says it'll control, or to be more appropriate remote-control Venezuela, the UN should tell them to contribute to the betterment and care for the innocent civilians of that country.  The standard of living, education, medical care, food and livelihood of the victim country must be good at any cost. If the US agrees and materialises these clauses then only this 'big daddy' thing can be accepted. Otherwise there is no difference between the World War II Germany and the current US. What say, guys ?

     Bye for now. I'll bring more content soon.