What is a 'wife' and what is 'the other woman' ? 🤔🤔🤔

https://youtube.com/shorts/7BeUZP0h4ZY?si=Y3_hcAqRA-_YzXkx

                  

Charles-Diana wedding photo 

             Charles-Camilla wedding photo                                    the second wedding 

👆 This story of betrayal, the horrible kind of cheating led to Charles and Diana's divorce. 

     Diana, utmost gorgeous. She was beauty personified. At the time of her death, at age thirty-six she was the world's most photographed woman. Her clothes, her make up, her jewellery, all made headlines. Diana marrying Charles was the deep and meticulous planning of the decision makers within the royal family. She was brought in to keep the British citizens mesmerized and blown away. The whole world was in awe of her charitable work. She even came to India more than once, met Mother Teresa and many much more... She still stays in the hearts of the British subjects or more appropriately the citizens. Even though her husband went on to cheat her, and broke her heart, she was divinely fortunate to die alongside her love, Dodi Al-fayed. As if God himself had planned it. 

     Camilla, was the other woman and finally broke Diana's home. She was not a good looking woman, not even half as good as her now husband's ex-wife. But the would be king loved her, as per law, was ready to exchange vows with her, now making her the Queen Consort of the Great Britain. The laws ran this way.  

      Second marriages, cheating husbands are pure poison to the first wife. Her 'love' is the culprit. Stop loving such kind of a person. You'll feel less painful. Was the second wife right in shouting from rooftops and making loud and clear and mocking at the first wife that she had won the war and the earlier one should leave quietly ? Cheating in a marriage is a disease which has happened since Adam and Eve had been made.  So my advice is don't take it so seriously that it starts affecting you. Be cool and composed. A career and an intelligent set of friends or relatives can help you if at all you get stuck somewhere. 

     So this is my advice to all you men and women who were the victims of their spouse's cheating. Worry only about money. An intangible thing called 'love' can't decide your future. Your corporate offer-letter and your degree certificates should.

     Don't think divorce cases exist in the US only. In India also, as per confirmed reports, the divorce rates are increasingly rising. This shows the Indian women have stopped accepting the unacceptable. Their strength and confidence have very surely risen.  It's a good sign. As against what was taught in the remote areas and interiors of Indian villages- you commit suicide, we'll build a temple for you, theory.

     So that's what I have for you today. I happened to see the you tube shorts which was in Camilla's voice, so have just given some of today's generation's thoughts on the topic. Bye for now... 

Easy and hassle-free cake recipe 😋😋😋

1. Tasty cakes👇

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2. Kothimbir wadi👇

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A little gardening and nurturing and it helped these students become graduates and postgraduates 👍👍👍👍👍

https://thebetterindia.com/farming/mango-orchard-maharashtra-college-educates-farming-family-students-12108051

👆 I was close to greenery and life, when I did my graduation in Manipal, Karnataka. Doing a little gardening or basic farming here brought the college kids from poor farmer-families their college-fee-resources. This idea is really good. Along with the blessings of the poor students, it's nature-friendly too. 

     The atmosphere in the college premises will also be serene and pure. It's a great idea. You don't need to become a monk to experience mental peace, planting and taking care of a tree, and watching it grow and bear fruits is a different level altogether. 

     Whatever happened in this village, should be tried and tested in all colleges with extra land all over India. What life are we giving to teenagers in cities ? mobile addiction, violent video games, narcotics ? Nurturing a living being, a tree, which is without much hassles is the right path along with academics. 

     If I ever meet the Principals of any city college, I would definitely suggest him to implement these in his spare space within the college boundaries. Commendable idea and kudos to the individual who first thought about it.

     So folks bye for now. I'll be back soon with more stories which needs to be discussed in public and encouraged. Chow... 

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Launch of my new e-book 'Modern Relationships vol 5'

      It has been more than a year since I wrote a book. But der aaye durust aaye, I'm back with my new e-book 'Modern Relationships vol 5'. I wrote the first four books of this series in www.notionpress.com But for this venture I came back to www.amazon.in The link is given below 

https://amzn.in/d/00dx1K8X

     Times change and with it changes human relationships. We have to move with the times. Change is the only thing that is permanent. The way we express love, responsibilities, mindsets, even the most mandatory feeling called humanity, keep changing. Women are multitasking robots now. Still when they hit the bed i.e. late in the night, they have a doubt and ponder over 'am I doing enough'. Women are educated, they even work and earn money now. But they are not Gods. Even they make mistakes, of course they're as human as men. So the modern man's job is to hold their hands and reassure them that 'its okay. Don't panic. I'm there to hold you when you fall. I'm here to support you and will always be there.' So go ahead and read this piece of fiction, it'll bring before you the happiness and peace you get by positive thinking and staying strong. And how goodness done towards anyone for that matter, is remembered and given back.
     The story in this three part book, mainly consists of Rachna, Ashish, Deven and Jigar.
Rachna: The heroine of the story. I potrayed her not as a Goddess, but a very todays girl. She is righteous. Whenever she stumbles or falls down, its Ashish and Deven who give her the courage and make her more strong.
Ashish: The hero. He marries Rachna seeing the positive and clearminded person that she is. He is brave. He first worked in the indian army and later got promoted to RAW, the indian Intelligence.
Deven: He is Rachna's friend and gem of a person. He is an Assistant Professor in the college nearby. He is the strong guide to his two sons and a wall on which Rachna could rely on in times of difficulty.
Jigar: He is in actuality the illegitimate son of Rachna. But he was never left alone or unattended by his mother, Deven and Ashish. 'We are there for you always. Gather strength and face the world' is the mantra taught to him.
     My gist behind this story is that stay positive and work hard. Building a close circle of actually good relatives and friends keeps your mind clean and healthy. Then you get the courage to fight against any difficulty. Keep away from negative minded and jealous people. Mental peace at the end of the day is very important. So go to the actual story and get motivated.

     The above is available in the e-book webpage too, I know. But just my way of explaining things...

     I hope you like and find my new e-book entertaining. I'll dive deeper into the depths of human relationships, and hopefully 'Modern Relationships vol 6' will also be released. It may take a month's time though.

     So this is me signing off, and once I find meaty and interesting path breaking stories, I'll come back once again to entertain you and make your day.     

Veg pasta recipe 😋😋😋

Ingredients:

Elbow pasta 3 cups

Tomato sauce 2 spoonfuls 

Red chilli sauce 1/2 spoon

French beans chopped 1 cup

Carrots medium sized chopped 1 cup

Fresh cream 4 spoonfuls

Vegetable oil 

Onion 1/2

Tomatoes 2

Salt to taste 

Black pepper powder 1/2 spoon

Coriander leaves chopped 1 handful 

Procedure:

     Chop French beans and carrots and stir fry it on hot vegetable oil(3 spoonfuls). Then keep it aside. Take a kadhai, put oil and fry thin slices of half onion. After it turns into golden brown, cut thin slices of cut into half two tomatoes and add it into the kadhai. Fry it. Then switch off the stove and put half spoon salt, add black pepper powder, add two spoonfuls of tomato sauce, add 1/2 spoon of red chilli sauce and add four spoonfuls of fresh cream into it. Mix well. Add stir-fried vegetables onto it and mix well. Keep this kadhai aside. Take a vessel, add pasta, required amount of water, half spoon of salt. Mix well. Heat it. After boiling point, keep a lid with little space open. Turn the heat into lowest. After five minutes of heating, check the texture and then immediately drain off the water and add the cooked pasta to the kadhai kept aside. Mix well. Then to it add the finely chopped coriander leaves. Mix well. Your mouthwatering veg pasta is ready.

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Modern day family life tips 🤔🤔🤔

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👆This is the modern day Indian family. I completely adore Hrithik, Saba and his two sons, which you can see here. So what if Hrithik divorced his wife Sussanne, he and his ex-wife are taking very good care of their two sons. The younger son has left for his higher studies in the US. So what if his marriage failed, we all adore the hardworking actor that he is. According to me he has played his cards well uptil now.  Bad things happen, keeping your tongues wagging ranting it day in and day out doesn't make you a 'good', 'respectable' and 'dignified' person. Working hard career wise and spending quality time with your kids does the trick. I'm sure with them playing their parts as parents very well, both their sons will surely have a good career and a very healthy personal life.

     What should today's mumbaikar youth do ? Work hard career wise, have a good contacts list, so that after studies you get a good job too. In public be very dignified and keep away from people giving bad vibes. 

     Positive vibes are very important because prolonged exposure to negative talks can spoil the health of your brains. You can get Depression and high blood pressure because of it. Dress elegantly because it enhances your self confidence. Spending time on hobbies also enhances your mood.  So do that too. People using cuss words regularly, and jealous men and women who spend a big amount of their time in tell-tale and criticising others are a big no-no. Keep them away, by avoiding them or giving them the vibes- 'I don't want you with me'. If this doesn't work, tell your parents that you want these people out of your group.

     Money is a must. Try other professions if you're not successful in one. Work hard in the new field, you will get noticed. In the end what we need is money, health, dignity and mental peace. Friends and relatives who are dignified can be good company.

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My creation: chiffon saree

Border of the saree

Pallu of the saree

Blouse-piece

There are small white pearls and square mirrors. Black and red emboidery threads and plastic threads .👍👍👍👍👍