Sikh Bhupinder Singh
(Former king of Patiala)
https://www.dnaindia.com/viral/report-meet-indian-king-cricket-player-had-10-wives-350-mistresses-88-kids-he-was-3103180?utm_source=Taboola&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=recirculation
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Eddie Murphy
(Hollywood star)
https://parade.com/1171114/parade/eddie-murphy-children/
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Marlon Brando
(Hollywood star)
https://hollywoodlife.com/feature/marlon-brando-kids-4635733/
👆 The above are the people who are very rich financially and family-wise too. So so so very much madness towards women. Even my own maternal grandparents were no less. They had nine kids, even though they were not financially well-off. Why do some people have more kids ? May be because they like a room full of 'own' people. Some have madness towards women. Or in detail if said, bodies of women. The Kolkata R G Kar Medical College gruesome rape-murder is one such case.
"If your woman doesn't listen, you've to make her listen",
"He doesn't follow what his wife says",
"You must not allow your wife's higher education at any cost",
"You(wife) have a place only under my(husband) feet",
"women should be tied up with a rope connected through their noses. Just like cattle then they'll be in our(men's) control."
"No matter how many degrees a woman has, it's us(the men) who can very easily teach them a lesson in bed."
All these lines are not figments of my imagination. I've myself heard these lines from actual men near me. The fault is in the upbringing of men in our Indian society. I'm not talking about mama's boys. In the patriarchal family system, even though the son is married to a very beautiful bride, his parents continue to scout for more brides for him for his second, third, fourth, fifth... marriage. I have indeed myself seen it. Don't indian parents have any other job ? Its sheer clear greed for dowry money or the saas-bahu kind of crazy and inhuman kitchen politics. Let's not deviate from the topic of menfolk forcing themselves upon women. The question is when will this stop ? I've thought about this for quite some time and arrived at the probable solutions:
👉 Women who do night-shift, or are staying alone in a particular place, should be given the facility of a gun and should be trained to shoot, if in dire need, on the knee-cap of the person who is attacking them.
👉 There are many well-educated women drawing huge salaries in their corporate jobs. If they are staying alone, they should keep a strong and trained dog with them.
👉 The police force does have various helplines exclusively for women. We should make the best use of these numbers. The first thing in the case of a stalker, harasser, molester or blackmailer is that the woman should inform the police and co-operate with them.
👉 The bigwigs of the glamour industry do talk in media about social affairs. They have said infact very strongly and clearly "when a woman says 'no', it means 'no' and the man has to listen to her and backoff. Women wearing western clothes or see-through or short clothes must not be taken as an invitation for sex." I agree with them. But still a woman or a girl child has to be careful and make sure always, whether it is their village or a big city that they are safe, then only they should venture out.
👉 Going to a secluded location alone should be avoided very seriously.
And to the men-folk, if you want sex outside your house, there are professional sexworkers. They'll help you. Don't scout for other girls or you'll land in big time trouble. I trust the Indian judiciary. Just like the Nirbhaya case culprits, Sanjay Roy will also be hanged. Don't feel jealous or blindly take it like- 'The woman is highly educated or highly successful career wise, so she'll insult me or belittle me sooner or later, so she should be taught a lesson.' Men and women both are successful in today's India, leave the thought of belittling her, thinking "I'll teach her a lesson and show her where she belongs to".
No need to teach anybody, girl or boy a lesson. For the mentally-sick, perverts, pornography addicts and sex-addicts, consult a rehab or a qualified psychiatrist. The modern, educated and mature world will not bow down to your whims and fancies. You will be punished.
So this is me signing off for today, feeling much lighter because I've done my bit for the betterment of today's fellow previously weaker but now equally stronger sex.
