There are varieties
in women. Some women want their husband/boyfriend to be a:
- Biscuit
khanewala kutta(a biscuit eating dog-an utterly obedient man)
- Ladies
handbag pakadnewala (an over the board spineless hen-pecked man who can be seen
holding his lady’s handbag in public)
- A
brainless fool who just blindly follows orders(He can take wrong decisions, do
wrong deeds, but according to the woman in his life-mother/wife/girlfriend,
what matters and what’s important is WHOSE order is he following. Its not
important for him to have a brain of his own.)
There are also some
women who spend lakhs on clothes and makeup, work-out in the gym daily, savour
diet food, just to keep their man glued to them. They just want him to be
crazily in love with them. And of course their men are crazy and glued to them.
Let’s go to the
other section of women, yeah the modern liberated women. These women are
adequately educated and are career-oriented. They believe in eating food from their own
hard-earned money. According to me, these are the ideal form of women. They are
brought up in the right way.
Now, one question
that crops up in today’s times is- do women really need a man in their life ?
ie it may be to keep them happy, to provide for them, to protect them, to have
kids. I fear the answer is no. I can give scores of examples of today’s women
who are successful and happily unmarried. There are others who are single
mothers, either through surrogacy or adoption. There are women who are married
and childless by personal choice. Yes ! education has made all the difference.
I’m happy that
today, especially in the city where I belong to, the law and order situation is
very good. So a woman can live alone, travel alone, work in their respective
work-places without worries. So a big thanks to the society for the gracious
acceptance.
I, myself am a
working, multitasking woman. I have a child and a husband. I’m financially
independent. But I lovingly accept that I’m dependent on my family which
includes my parents too for love.
Finally, I conclude that a woman is a nurturer and caring comes naturally to her. A man can be his lady’s teddy bear, punching bag and whatever she wants him to be. So, what women want, is basically nothing, today’s women already have everything.
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