Sunday, 22 December 2024

Steps Bollywood should take in 2025 πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

      In year 2024, horror-comedy movies were blockbusters. For example Stree-2 and Bhoolbhulaiya-3. Munjya was also received well. Kalki, a fantasy movie was a super hit too. Youth-oriented and patriotic film Fighter with top superstars, well-made, was well appreciated by the critics and was a hit at the box-office. I personally saw it in the theatres along with my school going daughter, and she and me both were impressed. Both the superstars were gutsy to sign such a movie and I laud both Hrithik and Deepika. The Crew staring Kareena, Tabu and Kriti Sanon was also a big hit. All three women irrespective of their age looked both beautiful and confident. Hats off to girl power. Today's audiences are indeed lauding good movies, they don't mind them being female-centric or male-centric. Irrespective of their ages, the three women looked great, they are well-accepted and adored by the audiences. Do patti was a hit. The issue of domestic violence and cheating husbands was dealt with. Good looking girl, actress Kriti Sanon is here to stay for really really long time. Maharaj, staring Junaid Khan was another hit. Sharvari Wagh looked gorgeous and her screen-presence was very much there. This kind of movie, was a commendable effort by Yashraj Films.

    Among OTT, Heeramandi and Call me Bae were the major winners. The audiences just loved them. I adore such kind of concepts too. Both the OTTs were well-made. Manisha Koirala, Aditi Rao Hydari, Sonakshi Sinha and Ananya Pandey were simply superb. 

     Auron mein kahan dum tha, Singham 3, The Archies, Ishq Vishq 2 and Jigra were the big time flops. 

     The audiences are adoring good and meaty content. They are giving good support to the women-artists. Boring, done-to-death and outdated 90s concepts were outrightly rejected. 

     Among the stars, Shraddha Kapoor, Aditi Rao Hydari, Alia Bhatt, Deepika Padukone and Ananya Pandey stand tall.

    South Superstar Allu Arjun's contribution to Box-office this year is noted all over India. Pushpa 2 is a roaring success. The male-lead in this movie is painted with dark-skinned makeup, overgrown thick Amazon-jungle-like hair with uneven shoulders and gaudy clothes. The song 'Peelings' also has weird kind of dance-steps. The heroine is made to cling to each of the hero's legs. This dance-step looks totally absurd. Still the movie is a massive hit, even in dubbed Hindi language. In the late 80s and early 90s such kind of Robinhood hero B-grade movies were made, which were huge hits then. The 70s Amitabh Bachchan movies like Zanjeer, Deewar, Don and Sholay were made and lapped up by the then hindi-speaking audiences. 

     We don't want the current Bollywood movies to be copies of Pushpa 2 because we have already seen them decades ago. The ones with new youth-issues with good music will be appreciated. 

    So its a wrap of this year's Bollywood report research, this is me signing off for the day. Chow.

Friday, 20 December 2024

Thursday, 19 December 2024

Getting on rent a designer-wear πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

https://m.economictimes.com/wealth/spend/renting-wedding-clothes-can-save-brides-grooms-a-huge-amount-others-are-monetising-their-designer-wear-via-renting/articleshow/116311388.cms

πŸ‘†Just rent a top designer's creation. You'll shine like a rare diamond on any occasion. Glitz n Glam. Your friends will be crazily watching your photos on Instagram, Whatsapp and Facebook. Just imagine the impression it will create in your circle. 

Very much in. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Tuesday, 17 December 2024

Dal bhaati recipe πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

https://hebbarskitchen.com/hi/dal-baati-recipe-dal-bati-churma-recipe/

πŸ‘† Looks delicious 

Monday, 16 December 2024

Rajasthani dal dokli πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

https://youtu.be/m2xbAFWa9r0?si=AUEHxJ7e-5rENp3R

πŸ‘† Looks tasty and easy to make.

Saturday, 14 December 2024

Should we marry or should we not ?

      I read about the recent suicide case of a Bengaluru techie by the name Atul Subash. He wrote a twenty-four page hardcopy suicide note and also video recorded his pain and the story of immense and unbearable torture inflicted on him by his estranged wife and in-laws. He also clearly told about the female judge laughing at his plight and helplessness. 

     This pained me also. The wife here is extremely harsh and fatally inhuman by nature and she is craving and will do anything and everything to usurp the late Atul's money. The 'marriage certificate' is misused over here. If you see the entire video suicide note, you'll also be hugely shocked. To what extent is the wife scheming to get Atul's hard–earned money ? His cries, his pain and the extreme stress he is engulfed with, is mocked upon by his own once lady-love and even the judge. This broke his spirit, his self-confidence was shattered into pieces. Is this what happens once two people enter into a love-mariage ?

     What should we expect ? Extreme mental stress, pushed to bankrupcy and in the end abetment to suicide. I feel pity on today's educated and hardworking husbands. Is there a way out ? Where is the time for love and trust, which in the west is considered as the base of all relationships ? 

     Say no to toxic relationships and gossip loving people. If wife or husband is violent and scheming, use the police secretly atleast so that you and your minor kids are safe. 

    Coming back again, writing e-mails to top Government honchos is a good option if your grave grievances are not paid any heed of at the lower-level. But ending your life, is something I don't advise to anyone. Don't do that. Think of your parents and genuine relatives, they will suffer. 

     The problem here was very serious. Humanity was crushed under the feat of a merciless woman, who advised her overtly tense estranged husband to kill himself, and he, sad and heartbroken did so.

     The law of the land should always be fair and provide care to people. If the current laws are inadequate or hurtful or unfair, then they should be addressed and new improved laws should be made to take its place. 

     Please save lives. Life is important. 

Saturday, 7 December 2024

An outing with Garima πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

 


Garima's favourite Korean noodles 

along with Dabeli, diet Coke and 
 kesar-badam flavoured milk. 

It was a nice outing with my child Garima today. Just squeezing few moments in between exams... πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Wednesday, 4 December 2024

Egg bread recipe πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

 https://youtube.com/shorts/xQUIDFhmNwM?si=EBOjiwKfIX1L3Neh

Butter chicken recipe πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

https://youtu.be/3r-r1Eprl18?si=pfYGJqtpqCTTS9ZX

πŸ‘† I think we can make little bit changes in this recipe. It will still taste good.

Hyderabadi dum bagara baingan recipe πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

https://youtube.com/shorts/tWTExCUU0JY?si=wum1bypgdCamrN03

πŸ‘† Mouthwatering πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Tuesday, 3 December 2024

Akkha masoor dal recipe πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GwxIO8K-FrY

πŸ‘† looked tasty when I saw on YouTube.

                              πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

Tuesday, 26 November 2024

Woman of style 17 😍😍😍

https://youtube.com/shorts/KPgCJ68Nrfo?si=EwgPxGMvk38dqbRx

She is undoubtedly the daughter of richest man in Asia. She can afford, hold your breath, anything... The above dresses of Isha Ambani are stunning. Just take a look at these marvelous creations. 😍😍😍

                               πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Wednesday, 20 November 2024

PRIYA'S BOUTIQUE 😍😍😍

                 Saree with blouse-piece

       
pallu of the saree 


This new saree is a product of 'PRIYA'S BOUTIQUE'. Its material is satin. It has got golden coloured background and its border is royal blue. It is hand-painted. It also is adorned with golden coloured beads and sequins.
                               πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜

                               πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Monday, 18 November 2024

The ultimate fashion advice: western wear

https://youtu.be/5uVoe2Sa16U?si=KqFeBzB9mPoqEDeZ

πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Draping a saree(new fashion) πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

https://youtube.com/shorts/gGX0LZq8v78?si=1T_oLaozWac-DdIp

πŸ‘† The above way of draping a saree is really very very in. Its simple. I recommend it to all teenage and twenty-something girls. 😍😍😍

Wednesday, 13 November 2024

Woman of style 16 😍😍😍

http://youtube.com/post/Ugkxugv4OQwH4v9yY5RG9MpboV7204TKYyGT?si=TxVxzxsY4LfLRg7k

πŸ‘† This is what I call the perfect makeup. This is fifty-one year old Aishwarya Rai. Kudos to the makeup man and the mother who gave birth to such a gorgeous lady 😍😍😍

https://youtube.com/shorts/0YLOnMN6a10?si=Gm_jmEHzmXAVfEQu

πŸ‘† The above are the Diwali looks of Bollywood actresses. All are gorgeous and beautifully dressed for the occasion. I don't think body-shaming should be done, each person's body is beautiful in its own way. But according to me, its my personal opinion that Tamanna Bhatia doesn't look sexy and she has more manly kind of a body. πŸ€” So I suggest that she should cover her chest, neck and shoulders fully and wear collared fully sleeved shirts as a top. So then the non-sexy and 'wrestler' part of her body is hidden. Rest is fine. πŸ‘

The man married thrice up till now. We'll analyse.

 https://www.hindustantimes.com/entertainment/tv/rupali-ganguly-stepdaughter-esha-verma-claims-actor-slept-on-her-parents-bed-told-ashwin-verma-to-give-divorce-papers-101730865965208.html?utm_source=ht_site_copyURL&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=ht_site

πŸ‘† In the above article we can now see the very rampant issues involved, where the man of the house is rich. The daughter is the one from the second marriage, a tense young girl from a broken home. 

     Like I've written previously the kids have to be taught in school very seriously- how to handle and come out of the extreme mental-pressure caused due to extra-marital affairs or multiple marriages of one or both parents. The kids get caught in such situations with no fault of theirs, and they don't know what to do or how to come out. At the most some distant family member comes and takes the child to a psychiatrist, who gives medicines for Depression. 

     I'm forty-two and seen the world, there were families shown in Indian movies, which were painted rosy-pink initially, but in reality there are cheatings by both spouses. Women are educated and earning good amount of money, they're not tolerating any more. There are rampant divorces happening now in big cities and also moderate-level cities.

      A parent or both parents now are more often sexually or mentally cheating. Its a nature by birth in many, where one partner is not enough to lead life joyously. The situation is going for the worse speedily and what we can do is train the kids in advance as a very important part of the school-curriculum. This will give mental strength to the kids. They here already know what they should do.

     Superstar Leonardo DiCaprio's mother married four times. It was one of his step-fathers who introduced him to Hollywood. And rest as they say is history. He is very successful career-wise and is also working towards environmental preservation. He is very much leading a respectable life and has millions of fans all across the world. In India we have star-writer Twinkle Khanna who ofcourse comes from a broken home with her family's life a sumptuous fodder for the media, but this woman imbibed only the good part of it. She is India's top female-writer currently, has a blissful married life and is a very good mother to her two kids. 

     The law, the judiciary do help the kids in many many ways. So many facilities and new stringently to be followed rules. Kids have to be counselled that they have their own life too. They must concentrate on that and work with single mind to enhance and develop a good future. And for everything else negative there are the various whatsapp groups of distant family members, neighbours and school friends and locality friends where they can share their anguish and with the group members' help they can overcome if the step-father or step-mother is troubling them knowingly. These kids can and have to take the help of law-enforcing authorities if anything heinous is happening.

     After this current in-school generation, when the next generation comes-up, life will be cool, luxurious and focused. The country is progressing and the financial capacities of new age parents are also definitely more now. So life will be good for these kids as it will be more mechanised and specialised degree-holders in child-rearing will be paid for and appointed by the new-age moms and dads. What say folks, is it a good life ? Stop cribbing, it is a good life. πŸ‘

Monday, 11 November 2024

Entrepreneur woman πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

https://www.moneycontrol.com/news/trends/how-a-remote-working-mother-built-a-rs-2-crore-business-from-a-simple-side-hustle-12862969.html

πŸ‘† This link is way too inspiring. I won't lose hope too. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Saturday, 9 November 2024

New style of draping a saree 😍😍😍

https://youtube.com/shorts/Ppsz_cMwpKE?si=IYNKSpiKKb_jkzdE

The above is the new style of draping sarees. It accentuates the figure and gives little bit hint of a ball-gown. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Thursday, 24 October 2024

Beautiful fancy sarees

https://youtu.be/XnltNKjtDsE?si=30MEJiEcq4Uq7yIk

The above link is of fancy saree collection. You will like it if you would like to buy a typical Bollywood actresses kind of saree. 

(This shop doesn't have 'Priya's Boutique' sarees. I happened to come across this YouTube video when I was scanning through the internet.)

https://youtu.be/bXUp_ei_kXM?si=c_Xsdm8xp3zfZCvy

πŸ‘† excellent fancy clothes which are bought in abundance by celebrities.

https://youtu.be/t3BcqlBmv2I?si=jt0hNrJbOUDz-hqB

πŸ‘† Fancy Bollywood sarees 

Monday, 21 October 2024

'Chuttamalle' song recreation in a youtube shorts video 😍😍😍

https://youtube.com/shorts/nt2wMVpb8-4?si=GGtzXgv2p5nbxyrG

The above YouTube video steps are better than in the original song video. The girls have magic in their bodies and they flow well with the song. Great work, kudos !

😍😍😍

Recipes πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

1) Sev thick curry:

Ingredients:

Ready-made sev of your choice 

Half coconut fully scraped 

Salt to taste 

Turmeric powder 

Tikhalal red chilly powder 

Ready-made sabji masala 

Vegetable oil 

Half onion

Two tomatoes 

Ginger-garlic paste

Curry leaves 

Mustard 

Cinnamon stick 

Black pepper 

Cloves 

Water

Tamarind 

Green chilies 

Procedure:

    First soak some tamarind slices in a small bowl of water and keep it aside. Then fry cloves, cinnamon and black pepper in a kadhai with a little oil. Then add chopped onion along with two sliced green chilies. Once the onion turns brown, add chopped tomatoes and fry that too. Then add one teaspoon of ginger-garlic paste. Then add the tamarind water and mix it. Then add salt, one-fourth teaspoon turmeric powder, half teaspoon tikhalal red chilli powder and after that one teaspoon of readymade sabji masala. Mix all of these. After that put the grated coconut on to these. Add only a small quantity of water, since we want a thick gravy. Mix well. Cook all of these in the kadhai, close it with a lid and cook on the lowest flame for just ten minutes. Then switch off the stove and allow the food in the kadhai to cool properly. After that grind this in a mixie-jar. And then add a seasoning of mustard, curry leaves with little bit of hot oil. 

    Serve this dish on a small bowl with toppings of sev of your choice. Serve this with hot steamed white rice.

πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

2) Vegetable curry:

Ingredients:

Potatoes 

Green peas 

Tomatoes(2)

Salt to taste 

Ready-made shahi paneer masala powder 

Onions

Half grated coconut 

1/4 teaspoon turmeric powder 

Half teaspoon tikhalal red chilly powder 

Ginger

Procedure:

Put the grated coconut in the mixie-jar and put turmeric powder, tikhalal red chilly powder and two teaspoon readymade shahi paneer masala powder. Add chopped tomatoes and half chopped onion. Put a little water and get a paste. Keep it aside. Put three teaspoon of oil and fry until brown half chopped onion. Put salt to taste and turmeric powder and mix well. Add two chopped potatoes and green/white peas and mix well. Add water until the veggies get submerged by it. Mix these well. Cook in the least flame with a lid for the next ten minutes. After that add the initial wet-ground paste. Mix it well. Put the required quantity of water, mix well and heat until it boils. The perfect potato-peas curry is ready. Serve it with boiled white rice.

πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

3) Kadhi:

Ingredients:

Half kg curd 

Three teaspoon besan

Salt to taste 

Turmeric powder 

Two green chilies 

Curry leaves 

Mustard 

Oil

ginger 

Onion 

Coriander leaves 

Procedure:

In a vessel, add curd, put besan and mix well. Then add salt and turmeric powder. Mix well and keep it aside. In a kadhai, heat a little oil and add chopped onion and green chillies along with ginger. Fry until the onion turns golden brown. Then add the contents of the initial vessel. Mix well. Add the required quantity of water and mix well. Then cook with low flame with no lid for ten minutes. After that add chopped coriander leaves. In another small kadhai, prepare a seasoning of little hot oil, curry leaves and mustard seeds. Add this seasoning to the main kadhai and mix well by stirring. The tastiest kadhi is ready.

     Serve it with boiled white rice and bhaji.

πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

Wednesday, 16 October 2024

Woman of style 15 😍😍😍

https://youtube.com/shorts/TVkJemWajfU?si=1A6wiSWpZbPNYJQh

From the colour of her skin to the colour of her lipstick, she's very very sexy. The make-up is very good. Her skin glows. This YouTube video is enough to crowd the theatres. Hats-off to Jahnavi Kapoor. I'm sure it's the duty and right also to take a second look if such beauty is around. 😍😍😍

Tuesday, 8 October 2024

Kareena Kapoor Khan: a woman who has got everything right for herself

https://youtu.be/gUI9mgm1ZI4?si=JCzue_--wR6aB4lo

https://youtu.be/MD7v0-igVIM

     Kareena has the specialised genes of the legendary Raj Kapoor and stalwart Prithviraj Kapoor inside her. That's why she's so successful in both her career and domestic life. 

     Her career began in the year 2000 with the movie 'Refugee'. And both through her networking skills and well-groomed self she has made it big in the film industry. She's the begum of Pataudi and a doting mother to her two kids Taimur and Jehangir. So, what we can learn from her life:

πŸ‘‰ Taking the right decisions at the right time. Her career-debut, marriage, kids were all at the right time. These increased her confidence and the public-image.

πŸ‘‰ The film-critics appreciated her hardwork. So in the eyes of the film-circuit and among the loyal bollywood fans, she gained a lot of respect.

πŸ‘‰ She made all the efforts to look good, or should we say gorgeous. She had the milky fair skin of the Kapoors right since the day she was born. Her team of top fashion designers, makeup persons and hair-care specialists made her beautiful all the time.

πŸ‘‰ She knew right since the begining that money was important. She didn't ever waste what she could have got. Right from marrying a super-rich Nawab to being Karan Johar's friend and her work-clause of working only with A-list male colleagues, thinking and doing things with a calm and well-planned mind bore her rich results.

πŸ‘‰ Gen Z adores her. ie the current educated, choc-a-block scheduled youth, which forms the major part of the ardent moviegoers, like her. She is a career-woman, a wife and a mother. That's called multitasking and she's doing that well. That's what the current youth looks for in their would be girlfriend or wife. A masterstroke. So she's their icon. 

πŸ‘‰ Although she's from a broken home, she herself valued her family-members very much. Right since her idol, sister Karisma, and mom Babita's care, views, opinions, rules and decisions she depended upon the right life-coaches right since her childhood. Even her father openly stated on camera that the secret behind the successes of the two sisters is the hardwork of their mom. 

πŸ‘‰ She doesn't fully depend on the men in her life. This is a very Gen Z thing. Her mom instilled this quality in her right since the beginning. Babita was at the peak of her career when at age twenty one she got married and left her career. She faced a lot of financial hardships and her husband didn't co-operate either. So both the sisters were trained to keep men as secondary. Their own career, money and health are considered as above all.

πŸ‘‰ Her me-time is important for her. Whether its holidaying in Gstad in Switzerland, her set of girl-buddies who are also very fashionable and in, wine and dressing up, she does take out time for herself. And after recharging well, hits back to the sets.

πŸ‘‰ Her daily dose of workout and yoga is followed religiously. 108 surya namaskar, yoga and working out in the gym gives her enough strength to be stress-free.

     Nothing like hardwork and proper meticulous planning in today's world. We can learn a lot from this woman. From size-zero to rich, young and multitasking today's woman, all city women should sit down and ponder 'Why can't I be like her ?', 'What went wrong in my life ?', 'Why doesn't my husband love me with all his heart ?', 'What should I do to look so beautiful as her ?', 'Even though she suffered a lot of setbacks in her career early on, what magic did she do, to give so many blockbusters later on ?', 'How to live with so much respect and dignity in the bad bad glamour world ?'... and the list goes on.

    There may be toxicity in the life of every middle class woman, God doesn't close all the doors at the same time. Think and discuss your bad career if you have one, with the relatives, friends, colleagues or neighbours who are really good and mean good to you. Having your own money does help in a real real bigger way. In today's big cities, being financially self-dependent does exuberate a lot of positive vibes, both in the maternal and marital home. Don't depend on men for emotional support. Love thyself and dig out the internet and contacts department to some or the other money-churning job. Mine is designing sarees, blogging and writing stories. Does it really get me the money ? No, it doesn't. But in my heart somewhere tucked deep inside, there's my inner voice telling me, that my future is good, I just need to muster up courage and discuss with the right people. 

    So, ending on a bright note and summing up all the gyaan for today, I'll queue up in the line for 'Singham Again'. 'Fulwanti' is another movie coming up, where a Lavni-dancer during the times of the Peshwas, with her mastery over the craft, dignity and confidence wins over the orthodox Marathi society. So counting the days backwards to rush to the theatres, this is me signing off with a smile.

     So bye bye babies and babaas, until we meet again...

Saturday, 5 October 2024

Kamarband and nose-ring 😍😍😍

Waist-chains or kamarband

It looks good with sarees, lehenga-choli, jeans or even skirts.






https://www.instagram.com/p/DANUETeS9FC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

https://www.instagram.com/p/DAo3lSFKHOZ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

In the above two links bollywood star Tripti Dimri has worn these.

Nose-ring
A simple one will accentuate your face. No need to actually pierce your nose.


     I actually have a golden coloured artificial simple kamarband. I have a golden coloured multiple white stoned artificial press nose-ring too. 
     Just wear and see, it can do magic to your looks and will make you look sexy. Don't overdo it. If there's a little bit of glitter and shine in your saree or lehenga-choli or if your skirt is a full-gher ie 360 degree full length one, you can wear these kamarband. I advise you to keep the nose-ring for ethnic wear only.

https://images.app.goo.gl/Zd6Jry4FxibCAKE4A

https://images.app.goo.gl/rWyGVbUExrNtXgMQ9

https://images.app.goo.gl/kGaoeH96zKWP36Wo9

In the above links bollywood stars Anushka Sharma, Sara Ali Khan and Deepika Padukone have worn these.

     These are not expensive either. You can easily get these in both amazon.in and flipkart.com  πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Friday, 4 October 2024

Woman of style 14 😍😍😍

https://youtube.com/shorts/UtQ7ntLkGOI?si=o4Tj-jCBSyj2noS0

https://www.instagram.com/p/DAo3lSFKHOZ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

https://www.instagram.com/p/DAqhn0ZKfpZ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

I know the 'Mere mehboob' song dance steps from the movie 'Vicky Vidya ka woh wala video' is quite controversial, as per the media reports. But the above clip from YouTube shorts is very beautiful. So... I like this heroine. I always take note of the dresses, makeup and hair of the artists whoever I watch onscreen. And this girl, over here is gorgeous. 

Skin-show and the choreographers giving suggestive dance-steps is nothing new. Its part of a heroine's job. So keeping aside the negative comments, enjoy the above clip. 😘😘😘

Thursday, 19 September 2024

Love you Georgina Rodriguez 😍😍😍


https://youtube.com/shorts/m7pqqE9WrYY?si=CpRiqN0yRSHUkS5S

My inference: I fell in love and started adoring Georgina after watching the above YouTube short. Supermodel Irina Sheik was also very beautiful and a successful career-woman. She refused to attend Christiano Ronaldo's mother's birthday party. So he dumped her. Georgina is in a good financial position now. Her career is going on well. She looks a million bucks even after giving birth to children. Christiano is a good father to her children. He takes good care of her and her kids' needs. So it's a good and correct life for her. Portugal has got 90% divorce rate currently. So with a sane mind if we think, not marrying is not a bad decision. Being born in a poor family, and having kids with a rich live-in boyfriend and with a serious good career now, I don't think it's a bad decision. DNA test proving that Christiano is the dad to her kids, can easily, even after they were to separate, provide funds to raise her kids. And I'm very sure a sane, level-headed and smart woman like her, will not have any financial issues even if Christiano leaves her. I think she is a quite good role-model for today's women all over the world. 

     Is being born in a poor family wrong ? What can she do in that ? She has taken huge risks, but is in a good position now. If indian girls are asking teary-eyed 'she had kids before marriage', all that I have to say is that- 'Take a chill pill, you so-called sanskari gossip machines'. I love brave women. And love Georgina to death and back. Love and taking responsibilities are the key things in today's world. And this has been proved by her. So loads of fan-love to this gorgeous young lady. Bye. Muaah...

Tuesday, 17 September 2024

How do second marriages happen ?



     We all know that second marriages do happen. But what goes into a man's or woman's mind when he or she takes the plunge for the second time ? Do people really marry for love ? If yes, then how does the love fizzle out after some time ? How to handle the huge emotional turmoil ? In some people 'once bitten so twice shy' happens.

     There are playboys and playgirls who keep changing partners. That's a different category altogether. Initially girls were taught household chores and boys were trained to earn money. What I think is that whatever course it is, both girls and boys should also be taught the way to undertake domestic life in degree-college. One subject is enough. An array of suicides, divorces and family-tensions can be prevented by this. The exact mindset and clarity required for handling domestic life with elan, will then be developed by both the bride and the bridegroom. 
     'Marriages are made in heaven' they say. But having or developing the right mindset is also very much essential. How will the marriages survive without that ? The brunt will have to be borne by the kids and the fellow family members otherwise. People say, the right way to lead a marital life has to be taught by the family members before marriage itself. But like in my friend's life, what if the parents are dead at an early age ? What if  wrong ways to lead life is taught, qualities like extreme greed, selfishness, revenge, lies and fraud are taught ? Trust me, the education system as a complete package will surely help. 
     Age-old mantra is totally over. There are new realities in life now. There are double income parents. Kids are taken care of by The Daycare Centers. The innocence is lost in the rat-race to earn money, money and even more money. 
     New age mantras or the current trend-

"You should start dating early."

"Love is divine. So you can fall or stumble upon new loves after every short period."

"Dating apps and blind dates are in. Make the most use of the technologies and easy facilities you have."

"All my friends are doing it. Why should I be behind ?"

"Doing illegal and unhealthy activities stylishly makes me look like Shahrukh Khan in 'Jawan'."

"Running after money is the only thing taught by today's parents."

"If you follow all the safety precautions, chating with strangers or disguised fraudsters or fake-id netizens are completely okay. Spending hours at stretch with these people shows that I am fearless, cool and charming. It's in."

My mantra-
"Hearing somebody's cuss words repeatedly leads to- You do yours and I do mine."

"Scan the minutest page on the internet to find work which in its own way, can provide you with money."

"Having a professional degree after graduation or atleast a Master degree is essential for looking equal."

"Your happiness should not in any way totally depend on your spouse being happy or him/her appreciating you."

"Cheating your spouse is clear-cut foolishness."

"Today's media says- 'If a relationship is toxic then you should end it, and start dating another man/woman.' But I say in today's high-end technology world, there is internet, Amazon.in, flipkart.in and an array of websites which can surely help you to do something new and concrete with your time."

"If a person hits you, hit him back. There are different ways to do it."

      Finally, depending on the mental capacity of a person, and the graveness of the situation, a person can opt for a second marriage. But there is no guarantee that, this time also it will be a good one. 
     I'm a strong believer in preparing a list of qualities I need in a man with pen and paper, and after that procedure, scouting the world for him.
    
So okay bye-bye folks. These kind of light-hearted talks do help in clearing our hugely congested brains and bring some respite.

Garima turns 11 πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚

           

        

         











 
I wish my girl all the love and luck in the world. 
God bless you, my kid.
                                πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚

Sunday, 15 September 2024

PRIYA'S BOUTIQUE

       


                       border of the saree 

                           pallu of the saree 

This saffron saree is the new creation of 'PRIYA'S BOUTIQUE'. It's high on bling, as you can see. It's borders and pallu are made of half-pearls and golden coloured sequins.

The pearls are so good that if you keep your face close to it, you can see the reflection of it on the pearls.

So, bless me all of you. Bye...

Thursday, 12 September 2024

Something great for housewives who are expert cooks πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

 https://thebetterindia.com/365436/tocco-meengurry-memories-reshma-suresh-banana-chips-homemakers-senior-citizens-pickles-podis/

My inference: I read the complete article and found that this is a golden opportunity for housewives. Other than earning money and finally after years of being belittled and mocked upon by the so called traditional career-women, the expert cooks can become self-dependent. TOCCO doesn't ask for a Hotel Management degree or an Experience Certificate. I think all good cooks in the family should give this a try. 

                                 πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Sunday, 8 September 2024

Adversities, what to do ?

 https://youtube.com/shorts/EtoRFqe97Y4?si=S5ONed8Thoeg-MoS

     I can't imagine that God has been so unkind to this woman. Such an attractive face, but both of her marriages left her alone in the midst of youth.

      It's important for women to be emotionally self-dependent. Even if it meant not financially but emotionally, what if that person dies ? Love is painful. What should a woman do in such a case ? Some women resort to alcohol or narcotics, which will surely lead to double-trouble later on. When I flunked my FYBCom exams initially, I went into Depression. I am taking medicines even now. I'll give out a secret which is my discovery-

πŸ‘‰ I kept a small and beautiful statue of Lord Buddha at home and on my office-table.

πŸ‘‰ Embroidery in sarees. I try to do funky things to new sarees. These additions to them make them look immensely beautiful.

     Both the above techniques are very good and natural sources of freshness and keep our emotions and stress stable. Some people resort to meditation, yoga, going to temples or gossiping with fellow women for hours together. Mine is simple and it worked fabulously for me without any side-effects. 

     Just relax and with a calm mind just ponder what can work for you. It can be karate martial arts, reading, writing, painting, cooking, gardening, music or dance. Doing something you like definitely cheers you up or it can even be eating something you love like sweets or chocolates. 

     Although natural and non-addictive remedies are the wiser choice, in serious cases of Depression, medicines are advisable. 

      So just like Depression-patient superstar Deepika Padukone, work hard, eat right, look beautiful and... your work is done. Cheer up.

Saturday, 31 August 2024

Amy Jackson weds Ed Westwick πŸ‘°πŸ€΅

https://youtu.be/x6OvfMJdbAw?si=e1HfgAYve5Lw6msx

Hats off for love 

Hats off for trust 

Nothing more-

Nothing less.

     Both these are from the glamour profession. They got married with great fanfare.

     Relationships are fragile nowadays. It is true mostly in people living in all the major cities of the world. Amy was cheated before. She had a child after her engagement before, with another man. That relationship didn't culminate in marriage and sadly both of them parted ways. Amy had been working throughout. She gave love another chance and lo ! she is now actually married to Ed. It's great. Her fans and well-wishers are also happy and wish her well. 

     Marriage was a bold and big step for her. I think somewhere down the line, indian women should also take cue from her bright and happy face on her big day in Ed's arms. 

     Indian women should also stop sulking and give befitting answers to all the women with over-active tongues, around them.

"She's not a virgin. You can't marry her. Keep her as your bedpartner."

"Once used, nobody will marry her. She's now only supposed to quench the sexual thirst of the violent men in the locality."

"She had a child out of wedlock. Serve her poison. Or else the family-reputation will be tarnished. Nobody will marry girls from our family."

"Her would-be husband had left her. She should have committed suicide." 

"A broken relationship means she should stay without a man in her life, till she dies."

    πŸ‘† The above are the real mindset, the actual word is 'rotten' mindsets of the Indian gossip loving conservatives. But I do agree that the girls must have good degrees in academics, so that there is a 'Plan B'. The ability of having a decent amount of bank balance cannot be underestimated. 

     Women are human beings too. They too can be cheated, fooled or tricked. So a new relationship can be a good next option. Don't force her though. 

     Amy was a good girl. She got what she deserved. A kind-hearted partner who loved her, and will continue to hold her hand, and never let go, throughout the journey and all the trials and tribulations of life.

     Congratulations Amy and Ed. πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’We love you.

                                πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Friday, 23 August 2024

Women women and more women are what we want 😳😳😳

Sikh Bhupinder Singh 

(Former king of Patiala)

https://www.dnaindia.com/viral/report-meet-indian-king-cricket-player-had-10-wives-350-mistresses-88-kids-he-was-3103180?utm_source=Taboola&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=recirculation

--------

Eddie Murphy 

(Hollywood star)

https://parade.com/1171114/parade/eddie-murphy-children/

---------

Marlon Brando 

(Hollywood star)

https://hollywoodlife.com/feature/marlon-brando-kids-4635733/

πŸ‘† The above are the people who are very rich financially and family-wise too. So so so very much madness towards women. Even my own maternal grandparents were no less. They had nine kids, even though they were not financially well-off. Why do some people have more kids ? May be because they like a room full of 'own' people. Some have madness towards women. Or in detail if said, bodies of women. The Kolkata R G Kar Medical College gruesome rape-murder is one such case. 

"If your woman doesn't listen, you've to make her listen", 

"He doesn't follow what his wife says", 

"You must not allow your wife's higher education at any cost", 

"You(wife) have a place only under my(husband) feet", 

"women should be tied up with a rope connected through their noses. Just like cattle then they'll be in our(men's) control."

"No matter how many degrees a woman has, it's us(the men) who can very easily teach them a lesson in bed."

     All these lines are not figments of my imagination. I've myself heard these lines from actual men near me. The fault is in the upbringing of men in our Indian society. I'm not talking about mama's boys. In the patriarchal family system, even though the son is married to a very beautiful bride, his parents continue to scout for more brides for him for his second, third, fourth, fifth... marriage. I have indeed myself seen it. Don't indian parents have any other job ? Its sheer clear greed for dowry money or the saas-bahu kind of crazy and inhuman kitchen politics. Let's not deviate from the topic of menfolk forcing themselves upon women. The question is when will this stop ? I've thought about this for quite some time and arrived at the probable solutions:

πŸ‘‰ Women who do night-shift, or are staying alone in a particular place, should be given the facility of a gun and should be trained to shoot, if in dire need, on the knee-cap of the person who is attacking them. 

πŸ‘‰ There are many well-educated women drawing huge salaries in their corporate jobs. If they are staying alone, they should keep a strong and trained dog with them.

πŸ‘‰ The police force does have various helplines exclusively for women. We should make the best use of these numbers. The first thing in the case of a stalker, harasser, molester or blackmailer is that the woman should inform the police and co-operate with them.

πŸ‘‰ The bigwigs of the glamour industry do talk in media about social affairs. They have said infact very strongly and clearly "when a woman says 'no', it means 'no' and the man has to listen to her and backoff. Women wearing western clothes or see-through or short clothes must not be taken as an invitation for sex." I agree with them. But still a woman or a girl child has to be careful and make sure always, whether it is their village or a big city that they are safe, then only they should venture out.

πŸ‘‰ Going to a secluded location alone should be avoided very seriously.

   And to the men-folk, if you want sex outside your house, there are professional sexworkers. They'll help you. Don't scout for other girls or you'll land in big time trouble. I trust the Indian judiciary. Just like the Nirbhaya case culprits, Sanjay Roy will also be hanged. Don't feel jealous or blindly take it like- 'The woman is highly educated or highly successful career wise, so she'll insult me or belittle me sooner or later, so she should be taught a lesson.' Men and women both are successful in today's India, leave the thought of belittling her, thinking "I'll teach her a lesson and show her where she belongs to".

     No need to teach anybody, girl or boy a lesson. For the mentally-sick, perverts, pornography addicts and sex-addicts, consult a rehab or a qualified psychiatrist. The modern, educated and mature world will not bow down to your whims and fancies. You will be punished.

     So this is me signing off for today, feeling much lighter because I've done my bit for the betterment of today's fellow previously weaker but now equally stronger sex.

Wednesday, 21 August 2024

Child geniuses should be encouraged and age restrictions should not be a qualifying factor.

https://www.dnaindia.com/education/report-meet-indian-boy-who-became-world-s-youngest-surgeon-at-7-studied-at-iit-he-is-now-3103272

πŸ‘† The above is the article I found on the internet where a boy right in his childhood had the appetite to learn, understand and do something that even the adults found difficult. Of course we do have skilled qualified surgeons who went to medical college following the various admission procedures, but this guy was good too. When skilled qualified surgeons refused to take up the surgery, the burns-affected woman went to him, when he, still a child decided to help her. And the surgery was successful. Currently at age 23 he is studying in IIT Kanpur.

     I know about some other geniuses too. 

πŸ‘‰ Chetan Bhagat, the famous Indian writer did engineering from IIT Delhi, management post-grad from IIM-Ahmedabad, worked in the finance sector in Goldman Sachs and now is in a totally different field- writing stories. 

πŸ‘‰ Warren Buffett started investing in the share market when he was 11. Now, still this old man is working in the field of Finance and is a very successful multi-billionaire.

πŸ‘‰ Steve Jobs and Bill Gates founded their respective companies Apple and Microsoft while they were still in college. The passion and the dedication to make it big in the computer industry was so high that they quit their academics mid-way. Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook was also a Harvard University dropout. India's renowned physicist C V Raman was also a man who went above the age restriction in the education system.

    The above are the facts which everyone can check on the internet. It's my gut-feeling now, especially with the advent of the internet, that with the right kind of guidance and dedication even the indian kids can be proven geniuses. The Indian government, State or Centre should think in this direction too, and relax certain hardbound rules to encourage more child-geniuses. I don't think it is that difficult or that unadvisable or wrong. πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

                                πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Wednesday, 24 July 2024

Cute and simple hairstyles 😍😍😍

https://youtu.be/5bMqrGRtx_M?si=J9qGDnWcieX-Whum

https://youtube.com/shorts/GTTu4WebfuE?si=bw3GX8DZ_iQ7z44u

https://youtube.com/shorts/Y8NbcaIwfDI?si=5pmon16YRunAV1pA

https://youtube.com/shorts/E29nXksRWzQ?si=bL5D7406zEQ16P_x

πŸ‘†The above bun hairstyles are easy and very nice.

                               πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Monday, 22 July 2024

Nita Ambani's ace designer Manish Malhotra sarees

https://m.economictimes.com/magazines/panache/web-stories/nita-ambanis-7-stunning-manish-malhotra-sarees/slideshow/111932019.cms

My inference: These are very expensive ones. And there are yards and more yards of cloth in these. Old specialised Indian traditional saree art is used in preparing these. Sarees worn here look very heavy. It's good.

Sunday, 21 July 2024

PRIYA'S BOUTIQUE 😍😍😍

 


Golden colour beads & sequins are used to beautify this saree.


Silver coloured beads & sequins are used to beautify this saree.


This saree is made of satin. Silver coloured sequins, along with black coloured embroidery threads are also used here.

The above are the three beautiful creations from 'PRIYA'S BOUTIQUE'

😍😍😍

Saturday, 13 July 2024

Celebrity-dresses in Anant-Radhika 'shubh ashirwad' wedding function 😍😍😍


The above dress was designed by Falguni and Shane Peacock.



The above are some of the best and top class dresses worn by celebrities on the occasion of 'shubh ashirwad' ceremony of Anant-Radhika wedding function. I just loved these dresses.
                             πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Tuesday, 9 July 2024

Charity


     I did something different, ie something that I don't do normally, something that I've not done uptill now. I had some extra chapatis today. They were prepared by me myself and I served these hot hot just out of the frying pan to the street dogs in sector 9. I hope these doggies eat these, satisfy their hunger, and I get my share of virtue. 

     I'm a big fan of Leo in the YouTube shorts by Anant Rastogi. Leo is a star ! What a handsome, healthy, smart, confident and fearless dog. He gives a damn about the outer world and loves his family very much. These shorts cheerup your mood, no matter you have your own dog or not. 

     Enjoy life, learn to relax, get some peace and give a damn to what the world thinks...

     Values are not the only ones given by parents and teachers, Superstar dogs like Leo too teach you a lot of important attitudes like humour and 'I give a damn'. I have had favourite celebrities as idols since childhood. 

Shahrukh Khan 

Hrithik Roshan 

& now it is guess who...

Superstar Leo 😘😘😘😍😍😍

    Love you Leo for your innate charm, sense of style and above all the humour. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

Saturday, 29 June 2024

Woman of style 13 😍😍😍

     

Pashmina Roshan 

I love the makeup, hair, skin and her super-confident look. "Kudos to you, young lady. You definitely got noticed."

Friday, 24 May 2024

Woman of style 12







        No Photoshop has been done in any of the photos.

It was nice taking some time out for myself after a long time.

Wednesday, 8 May 2024

A treacherous overconfident woman- Rashmi

Crime Patrol(real story) part 1πŸ‘‡

https://youtu.be/LorSjSYgVAk?si=6lY8RNyZVfO5aysp

part 2πŸ‘‡

https://youtu.be/c9_YvVnS4_4?si=MNliJrxfeNh0AIeL

My inference: Such kind of women do exist who go to heinous lengths to earn money and to lead a luxurious life, which otherwise were way beyond their reach. They aren't scared of anything, and know their art of seduction, sex and blackmailing very well. The word 'overconfident' is used posthumously for her by one of the many men used by her. Rashmi was murdered. 

Woman of style 11 😍😍😍

https://youtu.be/IgY7Me8dKik?si=WR2u6OvhYXru0a6y

https://youtube.com/shorts/5jtfFwuTkEE?si=1tats3pO-dYymVN0

My inference: I adore both Aliaji and the magical talent of designer Sabyasachi. Truly wonderful. 

                              😍😍😍

                               πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Monday, 6 May 2024

Woman of style 10 😍😍😍

 https://youtube.com/shorts/AfXzbTWln6U?si=0FbucVpx5E4Hptlu

I had seen Disha Patani first in the movie 'M S Dhoni- the untold story'. She looked good but now in the above video she looks very stylish, simple and sexy. Just properly maintained fit body, and subtle no-make up look here. Just wow ! 😍😍😍

                               πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘             

Tuesday, 23 April 2024

Something great on TV/YouTube

      I've been at home since the year 2020. I went through a lot of details on the internet to find something interesting and entertaining. Other than embroidery and short story writing, I searched for interesting stuff on the net. So I discovered five video shows.

     Crime patrol or Crime ki kahani - These are effectively presented shows based on real-life police cases.

     Amaan Parkar, Bloody Satya, Ashish Vashisht and Prince Singh are all narrators of real life ghost stories. Superb narrations. Just search these names on Google Search and you are in for exciting ghost stories. 

     Among the cookery shows, The Ranveer Brar Show is the best. Visa to Explore is my biggest turn on whenever I crave for faroff outdoor places. I recommend it. It's truly good.

   Koffee With Karan was good, is good and will be the best interaction with the stars in future also. Karan and his super-stylish presentation of Bollywood hunks and beauties are timeless and unmatched.

     YouTube videos of Bollywood movies' songs- superb music, great looking actors/actresses, beautiful enchanting locales will rejuvenate your minds and you'll surely start feeling refreshed and thinking positive.

   My daily-schedule consists of these and the regular house-hold work. The above TV/You Tube shows are so good in terms of quality and presentation that I thought of sharing these, what-if somebody is at home and getting bored. 

     Try these, you will know how to pass time if you're at home. It is thousand times better than endless gossip on the phone which also spreads a lot of negativity both in your mind and also across to others. Spending free time at home with systematic planning and also inviting positive vibes is an art, and I advocate it.

     The above videos and past-times are mainly for the housewives. For kids we have the cartoon-shows, for teenagers we have the movies, sports like American Wrestling and Cricket. Based on our own interests and mindsets we can go for Kaun banega Crorepati, daily news, and specialised shows discussing Stock Market, Mutual Funds, Tech/gadget critical analysis shows which are a huge turn-on for men.

     Beware of dance and music shows in all languages which contains more tears and endless crying by the relatives of the contestants, judges and even the hosts. The emotional garbage here will surely piss you off. 

     The first comedy-skit show season was truly hilarious. The Comedy nights with Kapil was also very good also because it was a relatively new concept. All the Bollywood stars with their inborn grace and impeccable style shone very brightly like big precious diamonds. But later on it became repetitive and boredom stepped in. 

    Initially I used to stay up late in the night to watch my favourite superstars win awards and give their thank-you speeches. But now the fights-between-dignitaries planned and prepared in advance just for fooling the viewers and for artificially raising the TRPs, have totally pissed me and the other fans off.

     So the above is my short and simple guide to people with limited time and for those craving for a rejuvenation cookie after a long stressful day. Follow it. Mazaa aayega.

Monday, 15 April 2024

Beware of online frauds 😱😱😱

https://youtu.be/8VkY3CkHX9g?si=l5cTVNeI64y5_rKf

Watch the above online fraud informative video. Even kids while downloading apps should be careful. You should without fail be alert, and check and be sure that the gaming or any other app that you are downloading is not fake and is clear of any virus. These viruses send all the secretive details including bank account details to the fraudsters. Even the links accompanied by a so called lucrative SMS, if clicked can give all the details of your mobile to the fraudsters, thus robbing you off the money in your bank account. 

Monday, 18 March 2024

Priya's Boutique's first 'for sale' creation

 


     The above is the first 'for sale' saree of Priya's Boutique. It's saffron satin saree with motifs made of pearls, beads and sequins. It's straight from my heart. It is designed and handcrafted by me myself and it costs ₹ 1000. People interested in buying it can convey through Whatsapp, I'll very gladly send this to the person's address through courier. 
     I pray to the Almighty to shower blessings on me, and make my 'Priya's Boutique' a huge success.